5 Reasons We Stink at Setting Goals

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  Sebrobin

  09/29/08 | Report as spam

  RE: 5 Reasons We Stink at Setting Goals

  Setting goals is something I do regularly and recently I left my job (after 7 years) to become an entrepreneur. I know where I want to go and I can picture myself in 5 years time. I have never been afraid of setting myself goals, but the key might be (I don't know!) to refresh them as you go -i.e. according to opportunities. Changing directions is not a bad thing as goals (personal or otherwise) should not be set in stone forever in my views. Experience and age set the bar higher or lower depending on personalities. Myself for example, I have been a father for 3 years and my goals changed dramatically since. All I want now is make sure that my children will not be in need until they can take their lives in their own hands. I no longer have ambitions to become a millionaire, as long as my kids can have a good start in life, be humble and respect others. I am running a business now and I work in partnership with other great guys who are in the same "fatherhood situation" and together we want to share success that gives a good future to our children. Why am I telling you that? The key to setting goals depend on your current context and how realistic they are. In 5 years time, I should be the co-director of a good growing business, but there again, I may run another business in the South of France in 2 years' time! Who knows?
  
  So after a long reading (thank you if you did!) I am not a candidate for not setting myself goals, but I might have helped think about how to do so. Don't set yourself goals in life if you have got nothing or no-one to work for at any particular time. This is putting too much pressure on yourself and it probably will impact on your behaviour and how people around you perceive it. Instead take the moment as it comes, but ask yourself the question regularly: Am I where I want to be? It's a good start to make changes and think about where you want to be instead.
  
  I hope this helps.

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  CC Holland

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  RE: 5 Reasons We Stink at Setting Goals

  @ Sebrobin: Thanks for your thoughtful and thought-provoking comment. You're right; we need to consider where we are in our lives when we set goals, and be willing to adapt them or make new ones when the situation changes.

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  prashant_singh

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  RE: 5 Reasons We Stink at Setting Goals

  I just want to add one thing here... As people say that always set long term goal, but as per my understanding and experience , we can set the next goal or short term goal may be for next year or couple year down the line and one day you will find that you have achieved so much.

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  Ramses the Great

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  RE: 5 Reasons We Stink at Setting Goals

  Lucky us that can set goals and achieve at least a major part of them!
  
  It comes a time when goal setting must be shared at local, region, nation and world levels.
  The world financial crisis is a clear example of the too individualistic goals that have been driving the ecomomy!
  
  I have a lot of respect for entrepreneurs like Sobronin and his approach as setting goals according to the situation is excellent. Caring for our kids and supporting them are a prime direction for goals.

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  Defencepro

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  RE: 5 Reasons We Stink at Setting Goals

  Great topic indeed and I would like to add that we should start by setting small and achievable goals to inspire us to achieve greater success in furure. If we commence with really big goals that cannotg be achieved, it will result in disappointment and de motivation. As you achive one small goal, set slightly larger ones with a little more time to achive them and so on. Every person has the ability to set achievable goals and make signaficant progress in their lives. Good luck to everyone reading.