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Disinherited From the Family Business. Now What?

November 18th, 2009 @ 6:00 am

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Categories: Death, Lawyers, Work/Home Dichotomy

Dear Stanley,

I am the president of my father’s company. Up until two years ago, I was the heir apparent to own and operate the company after his death. Due to a conflict between himself and my wife, he has mentioned that he changed his trust and will not tell me how this affects my future with the company. He has mentioned that my future ownership will be based on my performance but will not tell me the criteria involved in his decision. Based on what I’ve learned, he has changed his trust and appointed trustees to make the corporate decisions after his death. To make a long story short, those particular people are not supporters of mine. I do have a good job and am paid a modest salary with average bonuses. But I’m fearful that after my father’s death, my position with the company will be in jeopardy. Thoughts?

Signed,

Disinherited

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Stanley Bing is the bestselling author of Executricks, What Would Machiavelli Do?, Sun Tzu Was a Sissy, 100 Bullshit Jobs...And How to Get Them, and many other books. For more Bing wisdom read his monthly column in Fortune and visit stanleybing.com.



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CEOs and Facebook: What's Too Much Information?

November 3rd, 2009 @ 4:12 pm

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Categories: Drugs, Rock 'n Roll, Sex, Work/Home Dichotomy, Workplace Etiquette

Today I thought I’d answer the question Chip Conley asked BNET readers about a CEO’s private life and Facebook. Chip is the CEO of Joie de Vivre, a very cool hospitality company that runs a variety of extremely chic hostelries. I myself have stayed in some of them, and I assure you nothing about the CEO of the corporation interested me in the least while I was there. I did like the free happy hour wine and cheese, though. But Chip raises an interesting question about CEO imagery that I think is worth considering for a few minutes.

The controversy is this: Chip is a bit of an alternative lifestyle fellow, and as such, every few years attends the Burning Man rave thing in the middle of nowhere. It’s sort of the Davos for hipster business types who want to achieve high levels of consciousness with a dash of Native American spirituality thrown into their high capitalist hoodoo. It’s also attended by showbiz types, Zen networkers, and crazy people looking for sex, drugs, and what have you. Think Daytona Beach at spring break mingled with Lalapalooza with a dash of Carlos Castaneda thrown in. So Chip went there and took his shirt off and pictures were taken, some of which he posted on his own Facebook page. (Here I’m going to ignore my natural condescending repugnance at people over 30 who post stuff on Facebook and move on.)

Suddenly there were pictures of the CEO of Joie de Vivre looking slightly wrecked all over the Internet, available to any employee, customer, or random surfer who cared to look. Horrors! I think we’re all very fortunate that Chip chose to air only the shirtless pix. I guarantee you there were others. Naked is the new informal-wear at Burning Man. Once the pictures were up there, Chip ran into some flak from his HR and PR people, who felt his behavior was unbecoming to the august persona of CEO of a company dedicated to the hedonistic pleasures of its customers. This seems ridiculous to me. But then, I’m not his PR guy. Chip poses the philosophical question this way:

“What, exactly, does it take to damage the image of the company? Sometimes it’s straightforward — employees can’t, for example, write about trade secrets — but other times, it’s not. What if pictures emerge of a desk host drinking from a beer bong at a football game, or decked out in an S&M getup at an underground club? I’d have no problem with that, although I know plenty of CEOs who would. To me, that’s an employee’s private life. Take it a step farther — the employee is shown stealing municipal signs, for instance — and I would have a problem with it. Even worse would be if that employee is wearing a Joie de Vivre shirt. In other words, it’s a case-by-case basis. … I do think it’s important that companies have a social media policy, and I don’t think I violated the one my company just rolled out. Should a CEO be held to a different standard?”

Some thoughts here. First of all, Chip is right: in this instance, a company shirt would be worse than no shirt. A few years ago, I worked for a cable company that employed a variety of types to install cable. If you’ve ever had cable installed, you know what I mean. One of our installers made the front page of the New York Post, where he was pictured with two machine guns, one in each hand, and matching bandoleros draped across his chest. The article noted this gentleman’s place of employment deep within the body of the article. Just five minutes before the picture was taken, he had removed his shirt, the one with the company logo on its chest. Believe me, we all breathed a sigh of relief at corporate headquarters. You don’t want the company’s brand mixed up with any funny business. So Chip’s shirtlessness was, in a business sense, far less egregious than if he had mixed up his brand with that of his firm.

Secondly, Chip asks whether he, as CEO, had set up a double standard vis a vis the company’s social media policy. I don’t know. He says he hasn’t. He’s the boss. I guess that means he hasn’t. I can tell you that it’s a rare company indeed that can keep its employees from expressing their Burning Man personalities on the web. People have to use judgment, of course. But appearing goofy, messed up, and covered with sand and goodwill is not illegal as far as I can tell.

So speaking narrowly, I would say that Chip is on solid ground. He should stop tormenting himself and tell his HR and PR guys to get a sense of humor. They work for this particular CEO. This is his personality. Instead of making him feel bad about himself, they might think about how to leverage his oddities into part of the brand identity. How about an ad with a picture of Chip topless and copy that reads, “This is our CEO. We want you to have as good a time as he does. Joie de Vivre”?

There is a larger issue here, though; one that Mr. Conley might spend some time thinking about if he’d like to. (If he doesn’t want to, of course, he can bag it. Like I said, he runs the place. And that’s the point.) There are things a leader can do that will forever diminish him in the eyes of those with whom he works. The wrong picture, the wrong action, can strip him or her of the aura of authority in which much of his power resides. Imagine Winston Churchill appearing in the press in a bathing suit. Would he still have been able to address his nation in precisely the same way? I think not. On the other hand, I don’t think anybody would think less of Barak Obama if he was seen swimming off Oahu. Why? Because Mr. Obama probably looks awesome and dignified in a tasteful swimsuit, and Mr. Churchill would not. On the other hand, people routinely saw Churchill with an entire bottle of brandy in him. He was clearly intoxicated by noon on many days. Nobody minded much. If you saw President Obama listing slightly on his way into a state dinner? Completely out of character. Disquieting. Destabilizing.

It’s all about the individual leader, the style they have set up for themselves, and whether the employees’ expectation of predictable behavior is being violated. In Chip’s case, I bet his employees know he’s a bit of a party animal. He looks downright saucy in his picture, too. Not an ounce of fat on the boy. Good for him. If he should worry about anything, it’s probably that demented expression and the wacky glasses, which are a lot more questionable than his buffness. A naked man can make all kinds of proper business decisions. A goofball, on the other hand…

Stanley Bing is the bestselling author of Executricks, What Would Machiavelli Do?, Sun Tzu Was a Sissy, 100 Bullshit Jobs...And How to Get Them, and many other books. For more Bing wisdom read his monthly column in Fortune and visit stanleybing.com.



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My Ex-Wife, My Business Partner

August 3rd, 2009 @ 9:43 am

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Categories: Hate, Lawyers, Love, Work/Home Dichotomy

Dear Stanley,

I’m 65 and am 50 percent owner of a retail grocery store. The other owner is my ex-wife. Most of my net worth is tied up in the business. The other owner will not buy me out, won’t sell her interest nor consider selling to a third party because she loves the business. Sentiment has so far prevented me from getting nasty, but can you suggest tactics that I might use should it come to that?

Signed,

Chained to My Ex

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Stanley Bing is the bestselling author of Executricks, What Would Machiavelli Do?, Sun Tzu Was a Sissy, 100 Bullshit Jobs...And How to Get Them, and many other books. For more Bing wisdom read his monthly column in Fortune and visit stanleybing.com.



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Can I Sue My Boss for Asking a Rude Question?

July 21st, 2009 @ 2:45 pm

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Categories: Bosses (Bad), Compensation, Lawyers, Work/Home Dichotomy

Dear Stanley,

I asked my gay male boss for a raise and instead he countered, “How much does your husband make?” When I replied “more than me,” he said that we are well above the average household income and will be fine. Did he break any laws where I can take recourse?

Signed,

Steaming Mad

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Stanley Bing is the bestselling author of Executricks, What Would Machiavelli Do?, Sun Tzu Was a Sissy, 100 Bullshit Jobs...And How to Get Them, and many other books. For more Bing wisdom read his monthly column in Fortune and visit stanleybing.com.



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Should I Take a Sabbatical From Work?

July 14th, 2009 @ 4:45 pm

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Categories: Fun, Games, Retirement While Working, Work/Home Dichotomy

Dear Stanley,

I have paid off my house, car, credit card, and loans. The only reason I work is to pay for my utilities and cover spending money to fish on my days off. Then I save whatever is left over. I don’t want to buy a bigger house, and I don’t want a new car. I’m considering taking a year off from working and just taking it easy. My co-worker said that I am not living the American way and I am turning into a lazy communist. Am I?

Subversive in Seattle

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Stanley Bing is the bestselling author of Executricks, What Would Machiavelli Do?, Sun Tzu Was a Sissy, 100 Bullshit Jobs...And How to Get Them, and many other books. For more Bing wisdom read his monthly column in Fortune and visit stanleybing.com.



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They Can't Make Me Work Weekends...Can They?

June 3rd, 2009 @ 6:00 am

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Categories: Bosses (Bad), Managing Up, Productivity/Exploitation, Work/Home Dichotomy

Dear Stanley,

I am working at the trading desk of a big financial institution. Recently, they laid off a bunch of people. Then all of a sudden activity kicked up again when everybody in the world decided to refinance. As a result, I’ve been working weekends and even some holidays. There is a schedule they print up of who’s supposed to have weekend duty, but they pretty much disregard it. On the next two Saturdays, I have important stuff to do. I asked my boss if he could guarantee me the time off, and he said “probably.” What good is probably? My question is this: Is it possible for me to actually tell my boss that I can’t work the next two weekends? Can they fire me if I make an issue out of this?

I’m sorry, my friend, but because you told your boss of your problem, you are now unable to accomplish the proper strategy — which is to call in sick on the days you cannot work. Usually it’s best to pick something very contagious, like the flu or an eruption of something scary, like shingles (people who have not had chicken pox yet can get it from you).

Now, since he knows you have a problem, you will have to face the choice of outright, blatant resistance or expensive acquiescence. If they DO make you work, ask your boss if he can defray the expense this is causing you. If he makes you work and doesn’t help you with the money, I would say that you should begin looking for another job immediately and not rest until you have one. You are working for an oppressive regime, and unless you want to mortgage your life to these mean bozos, you’re going to have to do what’s necessary to free yourself or establish some guidelines for them. They don’t care about you, your expenses, or your plans to go to the wedding.

Your boss, by the way, sucks also. I know he’s up against it with HIS bosses, because they don’t even give him advance notice on how much work there is going to be this weekend, and he probably has the exact same problems with his life that you have with yours. Problems in a Stalinist state don’t affect the rank-and-file alone. But a good boss stands in front of the crap being leveled at his or her people. In this case, your boss should protect you, assign work where it will do the least harm, and give you a break.

This leads me to my final piece of advice: See if you can find the last remaining ember of humanity in your boss and appeal to it. It’s not about the workflow. It’s not about his bosses. It’s about one person helping another. “Come on, Bob,” you might say. “Please. I’m beggin’ you. I really need to go to these weddings and I’ll catch hell if I don’t. If you give me a break here, I won’t forget it. Please.”

If that doesn’t work, I don’t know what else you can do except figure out what the next step of your life is going to be. And when you do quit? Do it without notice on a Monday morning. We all have to enjoy life a little bit now and then.

Stanley Bing is the bestselling author of Executricks, What Would Machiavelli Do?, Sun Tzu Was a Sissy, 100 Bullshit Jobs...And How to Get Them, and many other books. For more Bing wisdom read his monthly column in Fortune and visit stanleybing.com.



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Insane Hours? How to Ask for a Schedule Change

June 1st, 2009 @ 1:17 pm

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Categories: Death, Life, Morale, Work/Home Dichotomy

Dear Stanley,

I started a writing job at a recently launched news website about 3 months ago. I work with a decent group of people, my job is interesting but not too difficult, and the pay is above standard. I should be singing, right? There’s just one problem: the hours. I START my day at 5 a.m., which means my alarm clock is usually ringing by a quarter after 3. The good part is that I’m usually done by 1 p.m. and have the whole afternoon ahead of me. Which would be nice if most of those afternoons weren’t spent snoring and drooling on my pillow. I am constantly fatigued and not eating well. I feel like I’m out of phase with the rest of the world, like I’ve had jet lag since mid-January. People have been putting up with this kind of shift work for years, and with the economy the way it is, I’m happy to have a job at all. Should I just suck it up and resign myself to a few more years of zombie life, or am I justified in my self-indulgent whining?

Bob Zombie

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Stanley Bing is the bestselling author of Executricks, What Would Machiavelli Do?, Sun Tzu Was a Sissy, 100 Bullshit Jobs...And How to Get Them, and many other books. For more Bing wisdom read his monthly column in Fortune and visit stanleybing.com.



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Should I Take the Big Bad Job Offer, or the Sweet Little One?

March 20th, 2009 @ 7:19 am

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Categories: Death, Life, Love, Work/Home Dichotomy

Dear Stanley,

I recently got two job offers. One is from a company in New York, where I’d be working on cutting-edge technology and would make top dollar by working myself until I die. The other company is in a small town with a nice work environment and can sponsor my MBA if I work there for at least one year. If I work for the New York company, I can still be with my family (I have a 2 year old). If I work for the small-town company, I’ll have to relocate my family. What do you think is my best choice?

At a Crossroads

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Stanley Bing is the bestselling author of Executricks, What Would Machiavelli Do?, Sun Tzu Was a Sissy, 100 Bullshit Jobs...And How to Get Them, and many other books. For more Bing wisdom read his monthly column in Fortune and visit stanleybing.com.



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I Slept With my Boss and Now He's Acting Weird

February 6th, 2009 @ 8:52 am

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Categories: Boss, Career, Career Death, Love, Office Politics, Sex, Work/Home Dichotomy

Dear Stanley,

I always knew my boss had a thing for me. Recently we met for drinks, and he kissed me and touched my tush. That night ended with us sleeping together, and we both enjoyed it. The next day at work he was cold to me but the day after, he looked at me with lust on his way to the airport for an overseas trip. Since he’s been away he hasn’t called and won’t respond to my emails. Help!

Regretful in Boise

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Stanley Bing is the bestselling author of Executricks, What Would Machiavelli Do?, Sun Tzu Was a Sissy, 100 Bullshit Jobs...And How to Get Them, and many other books. For more Bing wisdom read his monthly column in Fortune and visit stanleybing.com.



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