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If You're Gay, Should You Say?

June 26th, 2008 @ 11:26 am

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Categories: Ethics, Workplace

Tags: Prejudice, Supervisor, Bible, Gender And Diversity, Workforce Management, Recruitment & Selection, Team Management, Human Resources, Management, Michael Mattis

An interesting conundrum came up recently in Randy Cohen’s column, The Ethicist, that bears on our post Tuesday regarding the role of human resources in workplace ethics. In the wake of the recent California Supreme Court Ruling that recognized the right of same-sex couples to marry, a reader writes into Cohen asking:

I am a supervisor at a large corporation in the Bible Belt. I am gay and out and, while the company has no formal nondiscrimination policy, my colleagues and supervisors generally have no issues with my sexuality. I am about to interview a potential employee in his early 20s, who hunts, drives a truck and did not attend college. I want those who join my team to be of a tolerant disposition. Would it be appropriate to tell this applicant that I am gay?

And Cohen answers:

It would not. By bringing up your sexual orientation in a job interview, you could give the applicant the impression that his is a factor in hiring, a policy that would be unethical. Instead, talk about your company’s amiable, tolerant work force and your eagerness to add someone to your team who is similarly broad-minded…

What I found curious were the assumptions on the part of the writer. The writer assumes that just because the prospect is a hunter, drives a truck, didn’t go to college and lives in the so-called Bible Belt, that he or she must hold certain prejudices – which is itself a prejudice. To his credit the writer wrote in after the interview, saying that he had misjudged the candidate’s level of tolerance, though Cohen initially failed to point to this obviously questionable presupposition.

And while Cohen’s response seems reasonable at the outset, would it really be so wrong to sound out a prospective employee about his or her feelings with regard to the lifestyle orientation of potential coworkers? How is that different than, say, assuring that the candidate feels positive about affirmative action or equal opportunity? Aren’t these concerns as legitimate to HR as ensuring that the prospect is “a good fit” for the job in other ways, including overall goals, attitude and outlook?

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    PDXTRigirl

    06/27/08 | Report as spam

    who is more judgemental here?

    Two thoughts:

    1) Sexuality - even in the cloak of tolerance - has no place in a job interview.

    2) The writer leaps to the conclusion that because the candidate "hunts, drives a truck and did not attend college" he is intolerant. The writer needs to be equally open minded; tolerance goes both ways.

    Instead of stereotyping him - Invite the candidate to a working interview or to shadow team members and let him get his own sense of the office dynamic.

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    mbmattis@...

    06/27/08 | Report as spam

    A Good Suggestion

    *Invite the candidate to a working interview or to shadow team members and let him get his own sense of the office dynamic.*

    That's sounds like a good idea.

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    RandyU

    06/27/08 | Report as spam

    RE: If You're Gay, Should You Say?

    I agree with Cohen's answer.

    Also many gay's don't hide their gayness as well as they think. If the writer is like many of my gay friends, many people can probably tell within minutes of meeting them.

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    marketpro

    06/27/08 | Report as spam

    RE: If You're Gay, Should You Say?

    Sexual orientation should never be addressed when looking to hire a new employee any more than it should be an issue anywhere in any companies. Any manager not looking to hire someone based on their requisite qualifications, should be in a different line of work. In today's world, there can no longer be a tolerance for discrimination in any form.

    KenL.

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    mbmattis@...

    06/27/08 | Report as spam

    Agreed, but

    Of course orientation should not be a factor in hiring. But I was asking if a person's attitude toward orientation -- as well as to race and other issues, etc. -- should be a factor. That's not quite the same thing.

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    gsfsr

    06/27/08 | Report as spam

    RE: If You're Gay, Should You Say?

    Dialogue regarding sexual orientation has never been acceptable in the workplace; why should it even be considered in a job interview? I believe the supervisor is looking for personal affirmation for a life style choice, also not acceptable. I would emphasize the corporate culture, teamwork, frank communication, and a focus on achieving goals with excellence.
    Gary

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    bobbyrd2

    06/27/08 | Report as spam

    RE: If You're Gay, Should You Say?

    This article brings to mind a question that I have often had. Perhaps this is just life in general, but why does everyone need to know if you are gay. This statement not withstanding, I have never felt it necessary to tell anyone that I am straight.

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    mbmattis@...

    06/27/08 | Report as spam

    It's About the Attitude Toward Diversity

    Well again, no one needs to know, of course. It's nobody's business in the end. But won't a manager leading a diverse team want to know the attitude of a prospect to said diversity before he makes the decision to hire?

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    ingoodcompany

    06/28/08 | Report as spam

    Broke Back Human Resources

    The writer also assumes that just because the prospect is a hunter, drives a truck, didn???t go to college and lives in the so-called Bible Belt, that candidate must be straight. Didn't you see Broke Back Mountain? (I didn't, but I saw the commercials.)

    Wanting a diverse team is fine. But candidate pools are what they are most often based on posting methods and screening techniques, not on interviewing. If the candidate pool is diverse, then you should be ok with your hire. Tolerance, acceptance, inclusiveness, integrity, appreciation for diversity, all should be QUALIFICATIONS, not just icing on the cake for an otherwise qualified prospect.

    Lack of the same should be grounds for dismissal during the probationary period if they prove to be a detriment to the team resulting from their prejudices.

    For example, professional sports has racists, bigots, chauvenists, haters of all kinds on their teams and in their offices...but those folks either learn how to leave it in the locker room and play ball on the field like champions, or they get fired when it disrupts team play or sales.

    Keep your gayness to yourself in the interview process and thereafter. They'll figure it out sooner or later and make the choice themselves on what to do.

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    aghaleb

    06/29/08 | Report as spam

    If you're a gay

    i share the same point of view of the article writer and the reader. i think being what you are is related to your personal life and mustn't interfere in your work, especially your sexual life. people choose what they are in private life, but has to be what the work expects from them at work. didn't you see many men having lots of love and sexual affairs outside their offices? no body asked them what you're doing outside your office, but when this attitude affects the work atmosphere, many measures are then taken against the employee.

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    lamada

    06/30/08 | Report as spam

    RE: If You're Gay, Should You Say?

    I am an out African American member of a management team responsible for
    sourcing, recruiting, hiring, and training new employees. I can not imagine
    an interviewer bringing up sexual orientation during the interview. It's highly
    inappropriate and opens the door to legal exposure. We take the approach of
    describing the diversity of our corporate culture and asking the applicant to
    describe their "dream" workplace.
    What would I do if a gay interviewer detected my sexual orientation and then
    told me that he and potential co-workers were gay too? I would complete
    the interview and send a please-remove-me-from-consideration thank you
    letter explaining that based on the quality of the interview, we are not a fit.

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    ekfrancis

    08/01/08 | Report as spam

    RE: If You're Gay, Should You Say?

    To do so, is actually against the civil rights act of 1964.

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    Bornts

    08/18/08 | Report as spam

    RE: If You're Gay, Should You Say?

    I personally believe NO, you should not say. This goes to all 'non-straight' people such as Cross-Dressers, TransSexual Female/Male (pre or post op), TransVerstite, Drag Queen, Lesbian, Gay, TransGender and Bi-sexual people.

    If a person who is not 'straight' and has been working in a company for more than a year without telling anyone in the company that he/she is whatever 'it' is, then i think it is wise to not tell anyone at all. However, i have only one question being a TransSexual Girl and has worked for large companies in the last 3yrs without telling colleagues at work about my real 'gender', should people at my workplace find out my real gender and start talking bad things about my sexuality and that relationships between myself and colleagues at work start getting funny, be subjected to disciplinary actions at work? Or should i advise my workplace that i will take the matter up to the Anti-Discrimination Court?

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    vanreamer

    09/10/08 | Report as spam

    RE: If You're Gay, Should You Say?

    Well I am a person of alternative persuasion, and this obviously has no place in the HR process or in the company platform alltogether. Also, FYI, whoever hired this person that allows him to be in charge of hiring, needs to reengineer their company hiring practices and ensure that all hands are effecting the appropriate legal hiring practices set forth and allowed by law, the only way to save your derierre in the long run so as not to create liability. He should know the appropriate answers to this before given the capacity to be a hiring agent.

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    Bornts

    09/10/08 | Report as spam

    RE: If You're Gay, Should You Say?

    i need someone to answer my question above pls?

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