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5 Ways to Climb the Ladder Without Losing Your Soul

November 2nd, 2009 @ 4:31 am

Categories: Career Advice, First Jobs, Great Recession, Office Politics, Uncategorized

Tags: Professional Development, Career, Jessica Stillman

How to advance your career without losing your soulIf you recently graduated into the world of work, most likely your picture of the corporate world is skewed away from the warm and fuzzy. With many businesses spending the last year or so desperately trying to survive the downturn, recent entrants to company life have probably seen more than their fair share of draconian cost cutting, lay offs and hiring freezes — all of which might give you the sense that it’s really a jungle out there and getting ahead is simply a matter of dirty politics and soul-less self-promotion. In a fabulously titled article in Ad Age, Joe Hodas argues against this war of all against all school of career advice, and instructs the office newbie in “How to Advance Your Career Without Selling Your Soul.”

His message is one I can’t support enough and his eleven tips, ranging from classic wisdom to offbeat and unexpected advice, are practical and actionable. Here are five of the best:

  • We all have a personal toolkit — know yours and how to use it. As my mother told me on numerous occasions, I have special talents. Specifically, I’m a good consensus builder. You may be a killer salesman. Or extremely detailed. Whatever your “special talents” are, hone them and let them help define your personal brand.
  • It’s about teamwork, but know who is and isn’t on your team. I too hate office politics. And avoid them at all costs. But ignoring their existence is not only careless, but possibly counterproductive. Even if you don’t engage in them, someone else might on your behalf. Know who has the boss’ ear, who the players are, and who could take or leave ya. Whatever the political landscape in your company, it’s your reality and one you’ll have to navigate whether you like it or not.
  • Never lose your s**t — at least not in public. Let’s play a little game of association. When I say Christian Bale, you say what? Probably not “great actor from ‘American Psycho,’” right? Rather, I bet you said something along the lines of “overindulged jerk who pulverized some poor sound tech on a movie set for making a mistake.” I’m not saying that we shouldn’t be human, but one single outburst — even if merited — can do permanent damage to your personal brand.
  • Life is not always a box of chocolates — so decide how much you can take before you bail. The perfect job doesn’t exist. I would imagine that even the taste-tester at Krispy Kreme has complaints about his gig (though I can’t imagine what they might be). Too often we hit tough times and jump ship for a lateral move or get frustrated and stop giving 110 percent. A career is like a relationship, so make sure you’re putting as much effort into trying to fix the problems as you put into feeling bad about them.
  • Always be that ray of light in your boss’/co-worker’s day. This one’s simple. Surprise. Delight. Be the kind if individual you’d like to spend 200-plus days each year with. And to be clear — that’s much different than kissing ass.

For the very worthy remaining six, check out Hodas’ article.

(Image of a suit without a soul by danhollisterduck, CC 2.0)

 
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    mphcoach

    11/03/09 | Report as spam

    RE: 5 Ways to Climb the Ladder Without Losing Your Soul

    Or, just sell your soul and live with it, eventually becoming a career zombie and we've all seen some of those, happy in theit soulless lives!

    Martin Haworth
    Super Successful Manager!

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    rpanne

    11/03/09 | Report as spam

    RE: 5 Ways to Climb the Ladder Without Losing Your Soul

    All good. But can we please stop "giving 110%?" It's just not possible. Except for zombies, I suppose, and they're a bit scary.

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    IMLaughlin

    11/03/09 | Report as spam

    RE: 5 Ways to Climb the Ladder Without Losing Your Soul

    Useful advice, needs to be said, thanks!
    Unfortunate that in today's amoral climate it seems so ... radical.

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    Mundia

    11/04/09 | Report as spam

    RE: 5 Ways to Climb the Ladder Without Losing Your Soul

    Excellent post.Just what i needed at this stage of my career.

    i have been thinking of leaving my orgn for a 'better place' where everyone is professional and there are rules and procedures to be followed for any company activity instead of people making decisions about you based on how you look and your background.

    This post indicates to me that i can change my 'place' in an organisation if i master office politics and know what to do and when to do it instead of being a victim of the circumstances.

    and can someone define 'kissing the boss's a**'

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    Tatesjourney

    11/04/09 | Report as spam

    RE: 5 Ways to Climb the Ladder Without Losing Your Soul

    Or just quite the damn job and work for yourself instead of
    making someone else rich. Invest in yourself for the future, that
    is the only sure thing you can count on.

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    TUBBIES3

    12/08/09 | Report as spam

    RE: 5 Ways to Climb the Ladder Without Losing Your Soul

    Good advice but too late 4 me in my current situation.
    I think people are v v viscious out there. I'm an honest person but I work with a bunch of liars who will take any opportunity to suck up to the boss, will not hesitate to paint a bad picture of you in the process. The saddest thing is my boss buys it.
    So I thot I'd twork my butt off to try and please him but it hasn't worked. The only thing is that after the whole year of trying to prove myself, I'm left so exhausted and burnt out. No one can see my efforts. I can't recall when last I had a good laugh, even my social life has gone down with my working life.

    But if it works for you guys, don't listen to my ramblings!

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    ultimobo@...

    12/08/09 | Report as spam

    RE: 5 Ways to Climb the Ladder Without Losing Your Soul

    this reminds me of a Harvard Lampoon cartoon I saw maybe 35 years ago, about how to impress the boss in his office.

    Something like - 'why hesitate - you know he wants it ! Just get straight down there under the desk and give the boss a b.j. That way everyone can get what they want, without unnecessary delay.'

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    ppines2213

    02/04/10 | Report as spam

    RE: 5 Ways to Climb the Ladder Without Losing Your Soul

    Tubbies3, I hear you! I worked for the same company for 2.5 years. I too am an honest person but I worked with a bunch of backstabbers who made out they were 'my friend'. The result was I had to resign because one woman was making my life hell - and she had the support of the boss because she had painted him into a corner! I too worked my butt off, was proactively volunteering, worked back, etc. No recognition. Then my mum died in Europe. No support. So I quit. Like you, all stress and no laughter at work. I have been job hunting for the past two months and the money is dwindling, but at least I still have my sanity.

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