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Deflect Insults to Win the Day

January 15th, 2008 @ 12:00 pm

Categories: Business

Tags: Situation, There, Rick Broida

There’s an old maxim: acting is reacting. I’d argue that the same philosophy applies to business: Your success hinges on how you react to various situations, like impending deadlines, make-or-break sales pitches, and people who say and do stupid things. React positively to everything that comes your way and you’re sure to reap some rewards. React negatively and watch the career suffer.

Witness a story recounted by HP chief architect Pete Johnson, who, while on a conference call, overheard a very public slam against his team of programmers. Rather than jump down the jerk’s throat, he defused the situation with a joke. After the meeting, the guy called to apologize profusely and offer his help should the need ever arise. Months later, it did.

By tempering his reaction to a potentially explosive situation, Johnson turned lemons into lemonade. This is a great lesson, one that applies equally to business and personal life. Can you recall a situation in which a positive reaction to a bad situation yielded positive results? Tell us about it in the Comments!

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    petecj2

    01/15/08 | Report as spam

    Temporary vs habitual jerks

    Hi Rick,

    Thank you very much for the trackback, I really appreciate it.

    One point I'd like to emphasize is that I was fortunate enough that my conflict occurred with a good guy having a bad day who immediately knew he said something he shouldn't have. In The No ******* Rule, Robert Sutton reminds us that everybody has a jerk moment or two and I know that is certainly true of everybody I know (including me).

    Had I run into somebody who was more habitual in their behavior, the end result probably would have been a lot different. That's the tricky part, though: you just don't know. Better not to take the chance at missing out on sparking a good relationship, as I was fortunate enough to do, and take the high road whenever you can.

    Pete Johnson
    HP.com Chief Architect
    Personal blog: http://nerdguru.net

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