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Six Ways to Deal With a Back-Stabber

July 18th, 2008 @ 10:38 am

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Categories: Workplace

Tags: Advertisement, Marketing Executive, Creative Group, Marketing Research, Marketing, Jessica Stillman

  • Half of Media Execs Report Being Knifed in the BackThe Find: An astonishing 50 percent of advertising and marketing executives report having been stabbed in the back by a colleague at some point in their careers.
  • The Source: A national survey from The Creative Group, which provides specialized staff to the marketing, advertising, creative and web industries.

The Takeaway: The Creative Group sat down for 250 interviews, half with advertising executives and half with senior marketing executives. The results are pretty bad for the image of the media industry, which already has reputation for being less than warm and fuzzy. Half of advertising and marketing executives reported that a colleague had tried to make them look bad on the job at some point in their careers.

In an example of massive understatement, Megan Slabinski, executive director of The Creative Group, commented: “In advertising or marketing — as with any competitive field — it’s not uncommon for people to promote themselves at the expense of others.”

If it’s a coin toss that you’ll experience such bad behavior from your colleagues at some point, it’s a good idea to learn how to deal with inter-office backstabbing. The Creative Group offers some recommendations:

  1. Give yourself time to cool down — Don’t respond in the heat of the moment
  2. Look at the situation from every angle. What were your colleague’s intentions? Did you play a role in the problem?
  3. Chat in person, if possible. E-mailing about a sensitive situation can lead to misinterpretation.
  4. Explain the impact. Rather than hurling accusations, calmly explain how your colleague’s actions made you feel.
  5. Listen actively. Pay close attention to what your coworker has to say. Even if you disagree, you’ll get a better sense of how that person thinks, which can help you predict future behavior.
  6. Know when to get help. Immediately alert your manager to situations that appear serious.

The Question: Any hard-earned tips for dealing with credit hogging co-workers?

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    chrisgharper

    07/18/08 | Report as spam

    A problem that solves itself!

    Credit hoggers and back stabbers are a great problem to have for the sole reason they always solve themselves! When it's a behavior, it always gets repeated. That creates a pattern, and mainly one of dependence on others for their "looking good" ideas and 'results'. As they continue to steal the spotlight, expectations go up and it won't be long before they find themselves called into an office/meeting where they no doubt will look awkward because they can't think for themselves, resulting in credibility going down.

    True performers will always remain consistent and deliver results. Eventually everyone has to hold their own, and the credit hogs and back stabbers will struggle to do just that.

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    Norain

    07/22/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Six Ways to Deal With a Back-Stabber

    Simple and great way to address the issue and not easily remembered when a situation calls.

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    JamieAnita

    07/23/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Six Ways to Deal With a Back-Stabber

    The article relays a situation that exists with no true solution offering. It is an upward battle and time consuming to deal with persons who are sneaky; especially if the person doing the deed is a favorable employee with the superior manager or management. The situation is almost similar to the favorite child case; sometimes it is years before the parents realize this particular child was as mischievous as the rest.

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